Use when an architectural choice is made, a library is selected, an approach is committed to, a convention is set, or any "we'll do it this way" moment occurs. Fires the moment the decision stabilizes, not after.

Use when the user notices a recurring pattern they want the system to learn ("I keep doing X", "every time Y happens", "make this automatic", "remember to always"), or when explicit phrases like "/reflex-create", "create reflex", "teach yourself" are used. Generates a new SKILL.md file from observed patterns.

Use when the user asks "what have you learned", "what do you remember about me", "show me memory stats", "memory state", "/reflexes", or any variant. Surfaces what the limbic engine has accumulated as patterns, not as a memory dump.